Butt Plugs

A good butt plug is all about a comfortable taper, a safe flared base, and a size you can actually relax into.

Every plug below is rated by its Coyscore, our category-aware trust score built from thousands of real reviews across the web — weighted for a safe flared base, body-safe silicone, and beginner-friendly sizing. New to it? Our anal training kits step up gradually. We stock body-safe materials only and ship in plain, discreet packaging NZ-wide. Jump to the buying guide ›

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Butt Plugs: your questions, answered

choosingHow do I choose a butt plug?
Focus on three things: a gentle taper for easy insertion, a flared base so it stays safe, and a size you're relaxed with — start smaller than you think. Body-safe silicone is the most beginner-friendly material. The Coyscore weights base safety, material and comfort from real reviews.
comparisonButt plug vs. anal beads — which should I get?
A butt plug stays comfortably in place for a steady feeling of fullness, while anal beads are drawn in and out for a rhythmic sensation. Plugs are the more beginner-friendly of the two; many people start with a small plug and add beads later once they're comfortable.
beginnersWhat size butt plug should a beginner start with?
Start with a slim, tapered plug around 2.5–3cm at its widest — smaller than most people expect. Look for the beginner-friendly tag, use plenty of thick water-based lube, and go slowly. You can always size up later; rushing is the main thing reviewers wish they'd avoided.
safetyDoes a butt plug need a flared base?
Yes — a flared base is essential and non-negotiable, because it stops the plug slipping in too far to retrieve. Only choose plugs with a clearly wider base or finger loop, in non-porous body-safe silicone or glass. Skip anything narrow-bottomed that isn't purpose-built for anal use.
careHow do I clean and store a butt plug?
Wash with warm water and a toy cleaner before and after every use, then air-dry fully. Keep it anal-only and store it separately from your other toys. Silicone and glass are non-porous, so they clean up completely — pair silicone plugs with water-based lube, never silicone lube.
deliveryIs delivery discreet?
Always — every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging with a discreet billing descriptor, so nothing on the parcel or your statement gives it away. We ship NZ-wide with free shipping over $150. We don't offer change-of-mind returns or exchanges, whether or not it's been opened, but we'll always put a fault right.

Buying guide

How to choose a butt plug

The right plug is comfortable from the first use. Here's what the Coyscore weighs — and what to look for yourself — so you start at the right size.

Coy buying-guide card — “Size and taper — start small”

1. Size and taper — start small

The most common beginner mistake is starting too big. A slim plug with a smooth, gradual taper eases in comfortably and lets you relax. You can always progress to a larger size later — a training set makes stepping up simple.

  • Beginners do best around 2.5–3cm at the widest point
  • A gradual taper is more comfortable than a sudden bulge
  • The beginner-friendly tag flags gentle starter sizes
Coy buying-guide card — “A flared base and body-safe material”

2. A flared base and body-safe material

Every plug you'll consider here has a flared base or finger loop — the safety feature that keeps it easy to retrieve. Pair that with non-porous, body-safe silicone or glass, which clean up completely and are recommended for internal use.

  • A flared base is the one non-negotiable for anal safety
  • Non-porous silicone and glass are the body-safe choices
  • We stock body-safe materials and flag anything unverified
The Coyscore ring at 88 out of 100 with sub-bars for body-safe, base safety and comfort

3. Lube, comfort & the Coyscore

The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so a thick, water-based lube is essential for comfort — reviewers mention it more than anything else. That's why the Coyscore weights comfort, base safety and easy cleaning directly, drawn from thousands of real reviews across the web.

  • Use more water-based lube than you'd expect
  • Silicone lube degrades silicone toys — choose water-based
  • The Coyscore aggregates real cross-web reviews, not our own stars

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