Bondage Kits

One box, everything you need — bondage kits pair restraints, a blindfold and more so you can start playing tonight.

Every kit here is rated by its Coyscore — our category-aware trust score built from thousands of real reviews across the web, weighted for what matters: comfort, adjustable fit, and quality hardware that lasts. Want to build your own set instead? Start with dedicated restraints. Body-safe materials, plain discreet packaging, and free NZ shipping over $150. Jump to the buying guide ›

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Bondage Kits: your questions, answered

choosingHow do I choose a bondage kit?
Pick a kit whose pieces you'll actually use, then check for padded, adjustable cuffs and quick-release buckles. Beginner kits keep it to cuffs, a blindfold and a tickler; advanced sets add rope, gags and clamps. The Coyscore weights comfort, adjustability and build quality from real reviews, so higher scores mean fewer regrets.
comparisonIs a kit better than buying pieces separately?
A kit is usually cheaper and simpler for starting out — you get a coordinated set in one box without guessing what pairs well. Buying separately makes sense once you know your preferences and want higher-end cuffs or specific rope. Most beginners are best served by a well-reviewed starter kit.
beginnersAre bondage kits good for beginners?
Yes — starter kits are designed exactly for first-timers, with soft padded cuffs, simple buckles and gentle accessories. Agree a safe word before you begin, keep the first session short, and skip anything that restricts breathing. Look for the beginner-friendly tag, which flags kits with the easiest, most forgiving pieces.
safetyHow do we use a bondage kit safely?
Agree a safe word first — or a clear non-verbal signal if the kit includes a gag — and keep safety scissors nearby. Never tie anything around the neck, never leave a restrained partner alone, and check circulation regularly; a finger should slide under each cuff. Loosen at once if hands feel numb or cold.
careHow do I clean and store a kit's pieces?
Clean by material: wipe faux-leather cuffs and straps with a damp cloth and air-dry, and wash any silicone or body-contact pieces with warm water and toy cleaner. Store the kit in its box or a dry pouch so metal hardware doesn't tarnish and rope stays tangle-free. Keep it out of damp bathrooms.
deliveryIs delivery discreet, and can I return a kit?
Always — kits ship in plain, unbranded packaging with a discreet billing descriptor, and NZ shipping is free over $150. We don't offer change-of-mind returns or exchanges, whether or not it's been opened, but we'll always put a fault right.

Buying guide

How to choose a bondage kit

A good kit gets you playing tonight without a shopping list. Three things decide whether it becomes a favourite or a drawer-filler: the right pieces, comfortable fit, and a safe start.

Coy buying-guide card — “Match the pieces to your experience”

1. Match the pieces to your experience

Kits range from a gentle cuffs-and-blindfold starter to full sets with rope, gags and clamps. Buy for where you are now, not where you imagine you'll be — an over-ambitious kit usually means half of it stays in the box.

  • Starter kits: padded cuffs, blindfold, tickler
  • Advanced kits: rope, gags, clamps and more
  • Buy for the pieces you'll genuinely use
Coy buying-guide card — “Comfort and adjustability come first”

2. Comfort and adjustability come first

The pieces that get used are the ones that fit well. Padded, lined cuffs and fully adjustable straps mean the same kit works across different wrists and ankles, and quick-release buckles let you stop the moment anyone wants to.

  • Padded cuffs beat thin hard straps
  • Adjustable straps fit more bodies comfortably
  • Quick-release buckles for fast, easy stops
The Coyscore ring at 87 out of 100 with sub-bars for comfort, materials and value

3. Start safe, every time

Whatever the kit, the rules are the same: agree a safe word, keep safety scissors close, and never restrain the neck or leave a partner alone. The Coyscore weights comfort and build quality so the kit itself won't let you down.

  • Agree a safe word before anything goes on
  • Keep safety scissors within reach
  • The Coyscore weights comfort, fit and durability

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