Discreet packagingFree NZ shipping over $150Hassle-free returnsSecure checkoutAfterpay & Laybuy

Lubricants

Lubricants make everything feel better — the right glide means more comfort, more sensation, and less friction, whatever you're into.

Every formula below is rated by its Coyscore, our category-aware trust score built from thousands of real reviews across the web — weighted for what matters here: glide, longevity, and a body-safe ingredient list. New to it all? The versatile, condom- and toy-safe pick is water-based lube. Everything ships in plain, discreet NZ packaging. Jump to the buying guide ›

Shop by type

89

What's a Coyscore? A 0–100, category-aware trust score built from aggregated cross-web reviews — weighted for what matters here. Sourced & updated monthly, never our own star-padding.

Skip to results list
139 items

Filter

Good to know

Lubricants — your questions, answered

choosingHow do I choose a lubricant?
Start with the base, then match it to how you'll use it. Water-based is the safe all-rounder for condoms and toys; silicone lasts longest and works underwater; oil suits external massage but not latex condoms. Then check the ingredient list for a body-friendly pH and no irritants.
comparisonWater-based vs. silicone vs. oil-based lube?
Water-based is the versatile default — safe with all condoms and toys, easy to wash off, but needs reapplying. Silicone lasts far longer and works underwater, though it can't be used with silicone toys. Oil-based is rich and great for massage but degrades latex condoms. Most people start with water-based.
safetyWhat makes a lubricant body-safe?
A body-safe lube has a pH close to your body's (around 4.5 vaginally), a balanced osmolality, and no ingredients you react to — common irritants are glycerin, parabens and strong warming agents. Avoid numbing lubes, which mask pain. Every listing shows its full ingredient list so you can check before buying.
careHow do I use and store lube?
Apply a generous amount and reapply whenever the glide fades — with water-based, a splash of water reactivates it. Match clean-up to the base: water-based rinses away, silicone and oil need soap. Store bottles sealed at room temperature, away from heat, and check the expiry once opened.
valueHow much should I spend on lube?
A little goes a long way, so a mid-size bottle of a well-reviewed formula lasts most people weeks to months and works out inexpensive per use. Start there rather than a bulk pump you might not love, and buy by base for how you play. The Coyscore shows which bottles reviewers repurchase.
deliveryIs delivery discreet, and can I return lube?
Always discreet — plain, unbranded NZ packaging and a low-key billing descriptor, with free shipping over $60. Sealed, unopened lube can be returned within our returns window; for hygiene reasons opened bottles can't be. If a bottle arrives faulty, damaged or leaking, we'll always make it right.

Buying guide

How to choose a lubricant

The right lube depends on one main thing: its base. Here's how water-based, silicone and oil compare, what the Coyscore weighs, and how to match a formula to you.

Coy buying-guide card — “Pick your base”

1. Pick your base

Almost every lube comes down to three bases. Water-based is the do-everything default, safe with condoms and toys and easy to wash off. Silicone lasts the longest and works underwater. Oil-based is rich and great for massage but isn't safe with latex condoms. Your base decides most of the experience.

  • Water-based: versatile, condom- and toy-safe
  • Silicone: longest-lasting and waterproof
  • Oil-based: rich for massage, not latex-safe
Coy buying-guide card — “Match condoms and toys”

2. Match condoms and toys

Compatibility keeps things safe and protects your toys. Water-based works with everything, which is why it's the easy first bottle. Silicone is condom-safe but can damage silicone toys. Oil degrades latex condoms. When in doubt, water-based is the pairing that never lets you down, whatever's in your drawer.

  • Water-based is safe with every toy and condom
  • Keep silicone lube away from silicone toys
  • Oil isn't safe with latex condoms
Coy buying-guide card — “Read the ingredient list”

3. Read the ingredient list

For comfort and intimate health, the ingredient list matters as much as the base. A body-friendly pH and a shorter, glycerin-free formula suit sensitive bodies best, and it's wise to skip numbing lubes that mask pain. We list every ingredient so you can check before you buy.

  • A pH near 4.5 suits sensitive bodies
  • Glycerin-free is kinder if you're prone to irritation
  • Skip numbing formulas — pain is a useful signal

Keep exploring

Water-Based LubeSilicone LubeFlavoured LubeHybrid LubeAnal LubeStimulating LubeLubricantsMassage Oils & CandlesArousal & EnhancementEdibles & Body PlayKegel & Pelvic HealthIntimate Hygiene & HealthPumps (For Her)

Coyscores and quotes are aggregated from third-party reviews across the web, sourced and attributed — shown for comparison, not presented as Coy's own reviews. Updated monthly.